Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in San Diego, CA.

8 ways to improve intimacy

Everyone's got a bedtime routine. You brush your teeth, wash your face, and climb under the covers. But are you missing out on the chance to connect with your spouse? In today's article, you'll find the top 8 ways to deepen your closeness and connection (a.k.a. intimacy) as a couple during your...

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1 day ago • 3 min read

8 WAYS TO DEEPEN INTIMACY DURING YOUR BEDTIME ROUTINE

SLEEPING NAKED WILL DO WONDERS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE

Strengthen your marriage while asleep

For the first 14 years of our marriage we rarely slept naked except for the occasional time here and there after sex. But we began to realize the incredible benefits of sleeping naked, from improved health and better sleep to deeper physical and emotional intimacy. Check out this week's article...

8 days ago • 4 min read

HOW TO STRENGTHEN YOUR MARRIAGE WHEN IT FEELS LIKE YOUR SPOUSE DOESN’T CARE

My spouse doesn't care...

Do any of these scenarios sound familiar to you? I want us to deepen our physical intimacy, but my spouse isn't interested... My spouse completely turned me down when I suggested that we try something new in the bedroom... After asking for more date nights, I finally just gave up... We know...

15 days ago • 3 min read

3 REASONS WHY IT’S TIME TO WALK AROUND NAKED

Get Naked Just For Fun

You're naked at some point every day, whether you're showering, changing your clothes, or heading to bed naked. But how often do you stay naked? In today's article, we're sharing the top three reasons why it's time to walk around naked with your spouse. Plus, you'll learn some ways to easily...

22 days ago • 6 min read

7 REASONS EVERY WIFE NEEDS A MARRIAGE COMMUNITY

7 reasons to get more connected

If you're like us, there have been season in your marriage where you've felt like you are all alone...the two of you dealing with all the challenges. While there are aspects of marriage that are reserved for husband and wife, it's important to have a supportive marriage community. In today's...

29 days ago • 3 min read

JUMP START YOUR SEX DRIVE WITH LIBIDO BOOSTING VITAMINS AND MINERALS

Low sex drive?

Your body and libido will change over time. If not addressed, low libido can cause frustrations and challenges to your sexual intimacy if not addressed. From a new article to an interesting trivia question below, today's email is full of ideas and resources to help you boost your libido and...

about 1 month ago • 5 min read

6 STEPS TO PUT YOUR MARRIAGE BACK ON THE CALENDAR

6 ideas to make time for your spouse

Think about what your calendar looks like right now. It's probably filled up with family activities, work events, travel dates, personal appointments, and more. But how often do you put your spouse on the calendar? Your calendar is a reflection of your priorities. In today's article, you'll...

about 1 month ago • 5 min read

STAYING STRONG AS A COUPLE DURING BACK-TO-SCHOOL SEASON

How to handle the back-to-school transition

It’s that time of year again… back-to-school season. For some couples, the start of the school year is refreshing. You've been busy with summer vacations and entertaining the kids, and you're ready to get back into the swing of things. Or it’s very possible that the transition back to school is...

about 2 months ago • 3 min read

15 UNIQUE DATE IDEAS FOR MARRIED COUPLES

15 dates to try with your spouse

Every couple has their go-to date ideas. But every once in a while, it's important to mix things up. Not only does this boost your recreational intimacy, but it helps you learn more about each other, spend time together, and create new memories. Whether you decide to try skydiving, karaoke,...

about 2 months ago • 4 min read

Is this going to wreck your marriage?

Have you ever thought to yourself, "How did marriage get so hard?" For some couples, codependency is a huge obstacle that gets in the way of connection, closeness, and communication. It can be hard to recognize codependency in your marriage if you don't know what to look for. Check out today's...

2 months ago • 4 min read

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